i'm 20 yrs old from Chicago,IL
Don't really know how to work this but hopefully someday i will
why do i have to be set into a category of being a partier if i am young and have a child?
it pisses me off when people assume every young adult who has a child thinks they go out and party all the time and not spend time with the kids because they wanna relive there childhood or whatever well im not like that i barely go out without my child UNLESS im just quickly going to the store and i have somebody watching him really quick while i go i don’t do drugs and don’t drink and a rarely even smoke cigs i take a couple of hits from my bf cig and im done and thats only if i get super stressed out i spent 5 months on my own with my bf and child 2 hours away from my family and the whole time we lived there i never went out unless i was going to the store and i always had my son with me im always thinking of things for my son i try to get him to spend time with my friends kids if there not busy and i always thinking of him and what is going to be good for him why do i still need to be put into a category where half of those people only think of themselves never of there kid idk i just wish more older people would look at the how a person is instead of just cause im “young ” and have a child doesn’t mean i don’t take care of them or do anything and just go out and party
my attempt at trying to make spring nails only got close to doing one hand hopefully ill get to the next hand but yeah idk i think they came out pretty good
everything that happens around me is seriously the worst time to do it
lets just leave all 6 of your kids plus your friends kid and go out to party so the older ones can watch two babies and two younger ones wow great parenting i thought the whole point of seeing your kids was to spend time with them and do things with them not have them all babysit each other when you come to visit your brothers and sisters you should not feel like your like everyone else to just be there to watch them im sure the kids don’t see it as that but everyone around see it as that and its very upsetting im suppose to look up to my older sister not feel like im the only one who even does that right thing for my ONE child compared to her SIX children im sorry whoever reads this i am very pissed off and today is just one of those days were i need to get my thoughts out
